I used to be a huge procrastinator. If I could put something off I would. To this day I still procrastinate - it is a hard habit to break (my taxes are not finished and probably wont be until the 15th). For the most part though, I try and do things as I think of them. I have since learned that all procrastination does is clog up your brain. It is always sitting in there waiting in the queue until you get to it. My brain needs all of the help it can get to fit things like choreography and swim meet dates into it (and all of your names!) I have also discovered the benefit of actually doing things right when you think of them. It doesn't give you a chance to get out of it. You just do it. No need for second guessing or allowing fear to come into the equation. No need for reminders or lists or post-its.
I think there are two reasons we procrastinate - fear and laziness. Fear is understandable but these things usually have a BIG payoff. If it is enough to scare you but you know you should do it, it is probably something that will benefit you in the future. Laziness is just laziness. Work is work..... or is it? I will go back to my previous post and say it is all about attitude and perspective. I know that if I do the dishes at night I wont have to do them in the morning. If I make that phone call right now I have a better chance to get an appointment.
Exercise is probably the one things that people procrastinate about most. I can see how sometimes it might be fear - can I do it? will people look at me? how out of shape am I? - and it is easy to see how laziness could factor in. Sitting on the couch sounds a whole lot easier than burpees at 5:30pm. I think giving yourself the option or choice to not workout is the biggest problem. When you change your mindset to know that it is something you NEED to do you will make the time and do it.
So fit it into your day. Squeeze out some time. Make room for endorphins and sweat and mental health and muscles. You will NEVER regret it. JUST DO IT!
I wish I could wrap it up and give it to all of you. I hope that everyone, at some point in their life, receives it. I am not sure how to even label it but it is one of the greatest gifts I have ever received. Admittedly I was blessed with it long before my cancer diagnosis and although that journey re-affimed it and made it stronger it was extremely helpful in my fight. I am talking about gratitude and a positive attitude. I wholeheartedly believe that life is based 100% on how we choose to look at it. I don't care what circumstances have transpired in your life, or how tragic the events, life can always be looked at with gratitude and positivity and the positivity comes from the gratitude.
I have one particular friend who I have seen change into a new person. He started a gratitude journal. 5 things that you are thankful for every day. He told me there were days when it was extremely hard to think of 5 things but he would not go to bed until he had those 5. He is a different man and is excited to share his transformation with others.
I drive my daughter to school everyday and lately she has been complaining about it. "I don't want to go" she would say or "it is only Tuesday". We sat down and made a list of all of the things that she is learning that go beyond the academics. How to deal with peer pressure and talk to adults. How to be assertive and have a good self image regardless of the mean things people say to you. I want to wave a magic wand over her and have it magically be better but that is not how it works. Her "gift" will come someday but it will have to come from inside her.
You may be stuck in a job you don't like, or a relationship that is rocky. You might struggle physically on a daily basis or feel lonely. Regardless of your situation I can guarantee that if you change your perspective your life will change.
At least I have a job, security, a pay check.....I will give it my best.
I fell in love with this person for a reason.... I will give them my best.
My foot might hurt but the rest of me feels good..... I will focus on that.
Feeling lonely? Come to the EDGE. We can fix that one for you.
I don't know about you but sugar is a bit like crack cocaine don't you think? I mean I have never done crack but I would guess that you can't just do a little bit of crack. Same with sugar - who really stops after one bite?
I don't usually share my diet (boring!) but thought I would share just a little something. I have been sugar free for about a week now. Not COMPLETELY sugar free. I eat fruit and veggies that have "sugar" in them but no added sugar. No desserts, or sweetened yogurt, or drinks... you get the idea. Here is what I have noticed. I feel so much better. I have more energy and a more consistent mood throughout the day. I am not as hungry and my skin is starting to look better. Most of all I have noticed that in the last few days I don't crave sugar like I used to. I guess I have been going through detox and am now on the other side of it. I like how I feel. I am going to try and continue on this "sugar-free" journey. I am not big on a whole bunch of restrictions - it just makes me want things more - but this is definitely doable. Who wants to join me?
I have been thinking a lot lately about what the EDGE really is. What business are we really in? The obvious answer is fitness or health but I don't think that is truly what we are providing. I think we are in the business of making people feel good. Simply that. Feel good emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically. When you walk in the door I hope you feel good emotionally - I hope you are greeted by name with a sincere smile by someone who looks you in the eyes and really does care about your answer when they ask "how are you?" I hope while you are here you feel peace and comfort that goes beyond a surface level. I hope the positivity and love the EDGE was built on comes streaming into every sweaty pore and you walk away feeling refreshed and energized. I want the challenges that come with each class - following the moves, creating a mind/body connection, feeling the beat of the music - bring you mental clarity and help you focus and become sharper in other areas of your life. Lastly, I wish for you to physically feel great! I want you to notice one day that those aches and pains you perhaps had before are now gone and you just feel good being in your skin.
How could we be in any better business? We are so blessed to be able to provide something that everyone needs and desires and we do so with love in our hearts for you. As we grow I want to keep that integrity that we have built. I never want the EDGE to become "just another gym". We are special - and the reason we are special is because of all of you. Thank you for being an inspiration to others, motivation to others, a friend to others, and sharing your time with others. Suzanne and I know that life knocks you down sometimes. It always will.... that is life. When it does you have to brush yourself off and get up and keep going. The EDGE is a great place to safely do that. Sometimes the last thing you want to do is the first thing you need. The next time you are feeling crummy and want to just hide on the couch, take a breath and get yourself here. All you have to do is walk through the door and we will take care of the rest. We will help you feel better...... we might even help you feel GOOD.
